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Tori Spelling Blasts Star For “Emotionally Scarring” Her Kids With False Divorce Story

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Tori Spelling is blasting Star magazine in an open letter, criticizing the tabloid for its grossly sensational and completely false cover this week, which wrongly claims she and husband Dean McDermott are in a “$300 million divorce.”

Acknowledging that she can normally move on from the usual tabloid drivel printed about her, Spelling writes, “Yes, the story will pass but what won’t pass is what happened in a local supermarket check out line.”

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The “90210″ alum goes on to recount the awful experience of 5-year-old son Liam spotting the cover, which asks, “Who will get the kids?,” and becoming “terrified.”

“By the time he was fastening himself into his car seat he was asking, ’Why is someone getting us?? Where are you and Dad going?’ He was anxiously biting his lower lip and his big blue eyes were filled with tears,” recalls Spelling.

She continues, ”My heart sank. How would I explain to my children that what these 3 writers who have never even met us but who claim to know the ins and outs of our relationship and have proudly put their names on this article are flat out writing lies.”

“I’ve built up a pretty thick skin to the lies and trash talking at this point. But my children are another story. Keep them out of it! I wonder if any of those 3 writers have children?” wonders Spelling.

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“How would they feel if their child had to read something so hurtful and confusing as what mine had to read?” asks the actress. “How do they sleep at night knowing they’ve potentially emotionally scarred and if nothing else terrified innocent children.”

Alluding to the hurtful and inaccurate allegations made against McDermott in the cover story, Spelling adds, “Again, you want to make inaccurate low blows at someone Star? Go for me! I can handle it. I always have.”

“But don’t do it to a man that has done nothing but loved me and our children. He has stood by me during the good times and held my hand through the darkest moments of my life,” she continues. ”I’m so blessed to have him as my partner in life and love and he is the best father to our four children.”

It’s worth noting Star also falsely claimed Spelling and McDermott were divorcing last May.

Check out Spelling’s FULL letter below!

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TORI SPELLING’S OPEN LETTER TO STAR MAGAZINE

Here are the two things you learn quickly in the public eye when media publications are “reporting a story” about your life… That some publications are more reputable than others and they fact check their stories, and then one writes whatever story they want and repeatedly use the generic word “sources” to add an air of legitimacy. The second is that most publicists will tell their clients “no comment. This will pass”. And it usually does. Then, the next week the tabloid is telling lies about another celebrity. Well, my publicists are as good as you can get and they aren’t just business associates, I consider them close friends. But this time I had to comment because this time I’m answering not as a celebrity but as a mom.

At this point you might be wondering what I’m referring to while others have already seen the hateful story on the cover of this weeks Star magazine claiming that Dean and I are divorcing and many more horrible claims against my husband. Yes, the story will pass but what won’t pass is what happened in a local supermarket check out line.

My son Liam is turning 6 in a couple weeks. His proudest achievement so far in his young life is that he is learning to read. Until now, when that pride turned to sorrow thanks to Star magazine. He first spotted me on the cover, then Dad, and then a picture of himself and his 3 younger siblings. He was able to read two things out loud, the word DIVORCE (which he proudly sounded out) and the caption above his picture which read “Who will get the kids?” He became terrified. I had to hurry him and his confused 4-year-old sister Stella out of the grocery store and into our car. By the time he was fastening himself into his car seat he was asking, ”Why is someone getting us?? Where are you and Dad going?” He was anxiously biting his lower lip and his big blue eyes were filled with tears. My heart sank. How would I explain to my children that what these 3 writers who have never even met us but who claim to know the ins and outs of our relationship and have proudly put their names on this article are flat out writing lies?

I’ve always had shots taken at me. It’s been almost 24 years since I became a public figure starting at age 16 with 90210. It’s the downside to this business but I’ve built up a pretty thick skin to the lies and trash talking at this point. But my children are another story. Keep them out of it! I wonder if any of those 3 writers have children? How would they feel if their child had to read something so hurtful and confusing as what mine had to read? How do they sleep at night knowing they’ve potentially emotionally scarred and if nothing else terrified innocent children.

Driving home I repeatedly told my children, “That magazine doesn’t know us. Daddy and I are very happy and in love. There will be no divorce and all of us will remain together as a family”. Stella, my literal one, just kept saying ”But then why is it on the magazine? Magazines are true.” I wish that were always the case.

I’m lucky my two oldest are only 5 and 4 and couldn’t read the fine details of the article where horrific claims were made against my husband, their Dad.

Again, you want to make inaccurate low blows at someone Star? Go for me! I can handle it. I always have. But don’t do it to a man that has done nothing but loved me and our children. He has stood by me during the good times and held my hand through the darkest moments of my life.  I’m so blessed to have him as my partner in life and love and he is the best father to our four children.  I’m aware that all that matters is that we know our truth.  It’s just sad that our actual happiness would probably be deemed boring to Star Magazine. What kind of society have we become where love stories and fairytales are dead? That others’ failure is what people crave and what sells? That’s not the world I want my children growing up in. But I digress.

What is the outcome of this story? Easy…  Next week they’ll be reporting about some other couple splitting or someone having a breakdown and this will  ”have passed”.  And, Dean and I will continue to love each other and our babies and be grateful for the lives we have. I know that. But, our children should never have to bear witness to lies and fabrications that affect their lives so that a media outlet can make money. That will always be wrong!

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  • J

    Somebody needs to shut down all these magazines that only print lies just to make money

  • Nice gal

    Good for her for standing up to the trash and marketing them take responsibility for their actions and words. If only people still lived by the golden rule, do onto others that you would have done to you. If you don’t have something nice to say, then don’t say anything at all!

  • Jamie

    My heart breaks thinking of what that poor child must have felt!!! :( :( :( How awful.

  • Kathryn

    She should sue them.

  • Woof

    Sue the bastards

  • http://profile.yahoo.com/3QCEN56X7UY3H74AZCIO2VSJUY Kristie

    exactly!

  • Glow

    These kinds of tabloid magazines actually need to be banned. This is horrific . I think celebrities should sue them and get these publications off the market. so many celebrities lives are being bashed . SUE Tori , SUE. And I am not even a fan of hers, but these are her precious children.

  • Roserose

    tweet- retweet spread the word of this cruel trash, it must stop.

  • http://www.facebook.com/siskaggs Sarah Isham Skaggs

    What needs to happen is US as CONSUMERS need to stop buying the garbage…

  • http://www.facebook.com/rubythomas.kloss Ruby Thomas Kloss

    I just finished reading two of Tori’s books and my entire opinion of her changed. After growing up in a family where no one hugs you or says I love you…where you get an engagement ring and your own mother doesn’t ask to see it, no wonder she has issues. After reading her books I think the world of her, she is a good mother and wife, she is funny beautiful and obviously her husband loves her to pieces along with their kids. Shame on Star Mag and the other rags out there. Just keep loving Tori.

  • http://fenyolife.blogspot.cz/ Austea

    sue

  • mslewis

    I agree that this is terrible and no child should have to go through that. However, to those who are yelling “sue” . . . that is not as easy as you think it is. In the United States filing a suit against someone for liable or slander is not as easy as it is in other countries. Tori would have to prove, beyond a reasonable doubt, that she/her children/family were harmed by the actions of Star. The burden of proof is on her. It is a very difficult thing to prove and the cost would be astronomical for the plaintiff (Tori). Star would require Tori to present medical records proving her child/ren were harmed by this; financial records would have to be produced to prove Tori or her husband was financially harmed by the story. All Star needs to do is hang back, paying nothing, and stretch this thing out for as long as they can, costing Tori potentially millions. Not many celebrities, other than Tom Cruise, would want to do this. So, suing these people is not the answer. It is good that Tori wrote this letter but, as she said, next week there will be someone else in their crosshairs and this will continue to happen as long as there are people who buy these rags. I stopped buying this trash years ago and so should everyone else. If there is no money coming in from sales they will all go out of business. Wouldn’t that be great?

  • Alex

    I agree Sarah. The problem might start with the tabloids but it ends with us as consumers. We have the power to stop these low lifes by simply not buying the crap from store shelves or reading it online. These vultures will continue their assault as long as they have an audience. In this case, one of my favorite sayings seems to apply: I’d rather be part of the solution than the problem.

  • leon

    These magazines should not have the same protection as real journalists under the constitution. The protection was for legitimate reporters not these liars.

  • gregoryd

    The problem is we all read these on the internet. There are wannabe stars who look to have this stuff out there. The stars need to put a fund together and start lobbying for rules. Sue the hell out of them. I know it is hard to do but carol brunette did it and there have been others as well. Ya want rid of it, fight for it.

  • Kattie Louise

    Tori’s husband was on a show on the Food Network and he won as being the best cook and gave $50,000 to a charity. He said that his family means EVERYTHING to him. He loves being a father and a HUSBAND. When Tori called him up to encourage him, he said that he was going to do his best for his FAMILY. He seemed like a nice, loving man who loved his family dearly.

  • Jamie Edward

    That child of Tori’s is harmed. That is very scarring to a child. That child will always carry that fear with him as long as he lives. Things that you feel inside of you are the things that most of the times rooted from when you were a child. That child will always be checking to see if his parents are divorcing and carrying a pin stuck in his heart. It’s an inner thing that goes on forever, but as you said that might be hard to prove.

    I wonder what kind of people write such degrading stories. Do they have children? Here is something that can help children below. I wonder about the future of our children due to what’s being written in tabloids, etc. It’s heart breaking.
    http://www.paparazzi-reform.org
    The organization has to do with children pics being taken and placed in tabloids without the parents’ permission. In schools, children’s pics cannot be placed in anything that goes to the public without the parent’s permission, so I think that should apply to others too. This would be a start in bringing justice to all children because they seem to be forgotten, exploited and even destroyed inwardly… even killed. I see USA going down the drain because our children are not protected enough.

  • Kattie Louise

    They also need to take this trash out from near the checkout area in supermarkets. You meet tabloids going out the stores. Something should definitely be done about this. I am sure there are better, helpful and needed things that can be placed there. Tabloids…we can do without. Somehow, this what has been done to this child just disturbs me. It makes my heart ache. I just wish there was something more I could do. I stopped buying tabloids many years ago.

  • Donna

    All i can say is that in my opinion Star Magazine is a trash magazine! I never buy it or pay any attention to it in the supermarket or anywhere else for that matter. It is shameful that they would put such untrue crap on their cover and in there articles! Making money should never be at the expense of hurting or confusing a child! I think they should print an apology and it should have to be on the front of the magazine just as big as the lie they put on the front of this one!

  • Ra

    Isn’t any divorce sad? She’s lucky it’s fake and can reassure her son that mommy and daddy are ok. But I have to wonder about her Step son who probably saw the same headlines about his parents divorce. He probably felt bad and didn’t understand that his dad that he saw everyday was leaving and his time would be whittled down. I commend divorce parents that live close and get along for the sake of the kids. It’s hard but the ones that work together make an ugly situation tolerable for their children will get better adjusted kids.

  • Moccah

    I wonder how long the true story of how a married Tori and a married Dean cheated with each other in Canada ran in the tabloids? His wife and he on vacay with friends and she with their newborn baby and son in tow. He left her for the cheating skank. They deserve as much pain as they caused. That’s probably why Candy kicked her sorry ass to the curb! He is a dick as well!!!

  • Moccah

    Did you read Dean’s ex-wife’s book about how he cheated with Tori and left her with two kids, one a newborn adopted baby and no financial support? In her books did she tell you that she was married when she stole another woman’s husband and two kids’ father????? You might wanna reevaluate that glowing report. She was Leann Rimes before Leann Rimes with her husband stealing butt.

  • kristine

    Good for her.

  • http://www.facebook.com/Hyoung112290 Heather Young

    I absolutely love Tori & Dean bc they are.one of the most real reality couples and their love is so strong. Their relationship is a rode model to me.

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