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One Site’s Toxic Take on Kristen Stewart Controversy

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There’s silly, and then there’s offensive.

Robert Pattinson is doing his best not to be seen with his controversial Twilight costar Kristen Stewart!” shouts Showbiz Spy.

Explain.

“The hunky British actor… is said to be worried that his cozy friendship with Kristen will affect his career — because she keeps making silly comments to the media.”

Gossip Cop has a hunch where this is going, and it’s ugly.

“Stewart caused controversy earlier this month when she declared she feels ‘raped’ by the paparazzi,” continues the site, adding, “[Stewart also] lashed out at a photographer; demanded that her fans stop taking her picture; and claimed that she has a ‘crazy’ stalker.”

The upshot, explains Showbiz Spy, is that Pattinson is now “worried that being associated with Kristen will harm his career.”

Stop here.

There’s been a lot of discussion about Stewart’s remarks in British Elle magazine regarding paparazzi intrusiveness. Her invocation of ‘rape’ was misguided. She was criticized, and she apologized for it.

Some people believed the backlash was unfair, as Stewart was exaggerating to make her point and has done work on behalf of (actual) sexual assault victims in the past.

Some people believed her intentions didn’t matter, and that ‘rape’ is such an emotionally and psychologically loaded word, it shouldn’t be used to describe non-violent situations.

There are reasons to hear arguments from both sides.

But to pick up the (mostly concluded) rape controversy and hammer it as a wedge between Stewart and Pattinson is just insulting.

Consider what Showbiz Spy suggests.

Essentially, that Robert Pattinson wants to distance himself from Kristen Stewart because she’s vocalized her frustrations about paparazzi targeting and unhinged stalkers.

What the site doesn’t mention is the charming time it placed a photo bounty on their heads.

That’s right: Showbiz Spy encouraged photographers to descend on Stewart and Pattinson. It monetized the invasion of privacy. It helped to cultivate Stewart’s discomfort and distress.

When she complained about that aspect of her life — whether or not with a poor choice of words — it was sites like Showbiz Spy whose “silly comments” made for trouble.

The article then shows just how carelessly it was thrown together by attempting to tie its warped theory to the debunked rumor that Pattinson told cast and crew on the set of Water For Elephants that he’s single, which itself is part of the basis for fictional sparks between Pattinson and Reese Witherspoon.

“He’ll do the Eclipse premieres and then focus 100 percent on Reese and Water for Elephants,” explains a Showbiz Spy “insider.” “It’s like entering a whole new world for him.”

Someone hand this “insider” the 2010 Golden Shovel Award for stacking an impressive pile of… well, something elephants are known to leave in their path.

Pattinson will promote Eclipse with Stewart when that movie opens and then “focus” on Witherspoon and their film afterwards?

Wow, that sounds like what every actor does in every situation.

Like a dog that believes its owner has left forever whenever he steps out for groceries, Showbiz Spy has serious trouble with perspective. It struggles to make sense of a world in which sometimes two or three things happen in succession.

If Robert Pattinson promotes Water for Elephants, he’s not doing so because Kristen Stewart made a questionable comment to Elle magazine.

Two events. Unrelated.

Or maybe you could believe the site’s sources and theories. After all…

Showbiz Spy claimed Stewart and Pattinson were warring because of her “possessive nature.” Wrong.

It said they were looking for a house in London together. Wrong.

It floated a bizarre story that Stewart had “denied” Pattinson used steroids. Wrong.

The site helped spread rumors that Pattinson was with Kelly Blakewell. Wrong.

On second thought, maybe you shouldn’t.

But while Showbiz Spy is usually cited on Gossip Cop for being inaccurate and sloppy when it comes to celebs like Pattinson and Stewart, today the site managed to stoop lower.

It lay blame on the victim of a climate it helped create.

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  • Maguilita

    O.O … Whoever wrote this Commentary is fed up… and I’m right there with you… Hold you?
    All of this thing is SO out of proportion, lacks sense, and logic does not really work here…

    I’m quite speechless… When you put all of that what-elephants-are-known-to-leave-in-their-path together, it’s just suffocating!!!!!…
    And for the first time, I, by heart, hope that Robert and Kristen take some time (even years) off after all this twilight BS ends… Even if that means me not seeing their movies or watching their interviews… They DO need time away from all that madness…

    I think Kristen is begining to lose it, and soon it won’t be flipping a finger or saying stuff in interviews… It might be worse, and definitely I don’t want to see her like that… :( … I do hope she takes some time for herself… She said she wanted to study literature, right?… Might be a good moment, perhaps…
    As for Robert, I think he’s adopted the I-don’t-give-a-sh*t-so-say-what-you-want attitude… But that is limited… Everyone has their limits, and he might reach his too… But I think he’s cool at the moment… Plus, he’s kinda isolated, in a circus with many animals (every kid’s dream)… Being away from the hype works…

    Please, make all this thing end and move on…

    Thanks for summing it up GossipCop… ;)… I’m there with you…

  • crmomof2

    First of all it’s logical that Rob would do promotion for Eclipse…and when it’s time to the promotion for Bel Ami, or Water for Elephants that he will do that. It’s all part of the job and it’s what everyone does.

    Kristen didn’t need to apologize. Any who calmly read the Elle article and wasn’t out to hurt Kristen understood what she meant. However, She gave a sincere, genuine and dignified apology. She didn’t make any excuses she said she was wrong and that she was sorry.

    I don’t know whether Kristen and Rob are a truly a couple or not, but if he steps away from when she would most need him, then I say that would make him an opportunist and a shallow person. She didn’t step away from him when he made the “I hate vaginas” comments. His behavior hasn’t been so exemplar…he is just older and knows how to manipulate the media better. She actually makes him look good.

    Kristen is still young and make mistakes, which everyone does. However, there seems to be a concerted effort to attack this young woman at every turn…I don’t get it there are many others who deserve such persecution…I truly don’t understand why there is such a focus on this young woman.

    I know that she is not perfect but she is no different than any 20 year old girl. And quite frankly the Showbiz Spy’s article confirm what Kristen said in Elle. She is being victimized and violated…

  • Penelope

    Oh my … someone at GC seems to be in a rant today. LOL. But they are right, can you fall any deeper than Showbiz Spy? But since their photo bounty on Pattinson and Stewart in London Showbiz Spy doesn’t exist in my world any more, as all the articles that pic up their stories or part thereof. Simple solution, just don’t give them hits. No hits, no money.

  • dancer1

    I am posting what I wrote to “RAINN” the Rape, Abuse & Incest victims advocate group because I find what their behavior towards Kristen Stewart to be absolutely outrageous!! I don’t understand why people think when the paparazzi is “sexually assaulting” Kristen VERBALLY, that this is ok. She is constantly being “raped” by the words they use. For anyone to say differently is sick.

    This RAINN group NEEDS TO APOLOGIZE TO KRISTEN AND NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND! SHE’S A VICTIM!

    Here’s what I wrote NOTE: Use of words in a sexual nature is verbal sexual abuse; I needed to make that statement more clearer than I did to RAINN:

    @RAINN01 I’m tweeting you because of your “acceptance” of Kristen’s apology today. Huh? What? Really? Did I read your tweet correctly?

    Your acronym means “Rape, Abuse, and Incest”. Here’s the scenario:

    - A 17/18 year old female is standing at a gas station pumping gas into her car. She is surrounded by at least 15 strange men jamming cameras in her face while filming her and taking her picture while saying vile things out of their mouths to her.

    - A 18/19 year old female coming out of a restaurant surrounded by at least 15 or so men & woman jamming cameras in her face taking her picture and filming her as she tries to run and board a cab, she is verbally harassed and called a “bitch” amongst other things.

    - A 18/19 year old female runs out of a cab and is chased into her hotel by a strange man carrying a camera who proceeds to film her as she tries to hide behind another individual clearly upset and the man continues to film her until the door closes.

    - A 20 year old female traveled 12 or more hours to another country. In an attempt to relax, she goes onto her hotel room’s balcony. She’s subsequently greeted with a large group of unknown men with cameras with long lenses pointed at her room where she showers, changes her clothes, sleeps, walks around nude…cameras…cameras being held by men taking her picture in the privacy of her room’s balcony.

    - A 20 year old girl chased by numerous of unknown strange men thru the streets of this country screaming some of the most vile things at her while taking her picture and filming her.

    - A 20 year old girl returning home walking from the plane to the car surrounded by strange men screaming vile things at her after she just completed a promotion tour…mind you she wasn’t working at the time.

    - A 19 year old female is coming out of her trailer on the film set. A photo is taken of her with her pants unbuttoned. This picture was placed on a country’s national gossip magazine claiming she’s PREGNANT! A 19-year old un-wedded girl’s picture being broadcast around the world claiming that she’s pregnant. *shakes head in shock*

    - An 18 year old female being secretly filmed in a hotel parking lot along with her mother speaking to a friend. The girl doesn’t even know that she’s being filmed by strange men hiding somewhere near by until the video and pictures were posted on the internet.

    - An 18 year old female is standing on the balcony of her friend’s hotel room having pictures taken of her while pictures are being taken of her friend actually through the window of the hotel room. There were more intrusive pictures taken of them having lunch etc… at the hotel.

    THERE ARE MORE EXAMPLES BUT I THINK YOU GET THE POINT.

    At the age of 17, 18, 19 and 20 this female can be seen in pictures and film running, ducking attempting to hide from hordes of strange men screaming vile things at her. She is so scared that she is afraid to drive her car because strange men are chasing her and are assaulting her verbally and assaulting her space denying her privacy.

    This same female has continuously made every attempt to avoid any place where these hordes of men hang out but yet they find her and attack her at every chance they get. She’s not seeking them out in any way.

    What I find offensive by you wanting an apology is the fact that you failed to protect- speak out against those who are assaulting this female. A female who feels “raped” by the process. “Raped” and “used” by “the system” just to make money off of her image and her private life which she goes to tremendous lengths to protect in any way she can.

    YOU FAILED TO PROTECT AND DEFEND PUBLICLY A YOUNG LADY WHO’S BEING ASSAULTED. What? Verbal assaults don’t count. Being harassed and having vile things screamed at you doesn’t warrant your protection?

    Oh, I see, it just because they haven’t committed a “sexual” act it is ok for these men to assault in other ways. I see. As long as men verbally assault you it’s ok. Not to mention pointing cameras into your hotel room and chase you into hotels and restaurants and surround your car while you’re driving it’s all good.

    AS a female I am embarrassed and insulted by your organization. How dare you think it’s ok
    for a men to “rape” a female in a non-sexual manner physically but have at her verbally and while you’re at it, film it in the process.

    HOW DARE YOU EVEN CONSIDER YOURSELF A PROTECTOR OF WOMEN WHO HAVE BEEN “ABUSED” BY THEIR ASSAULTER?!!!

    KRISTEN IS BEING ABUSED!! A-B-U-S-E-D!!! ABUSED!

    Kristen = The Abused….Paparazzi = Assaulter

    “Abused” as defined by dictionary.com:

    - to treat in a harmful, injurious, or offensive way;

    - to speak insultingly, harshly, and unjustly to or about; revile; malign;

    - harshly or coarsely insulting language;

    - bad or improper treatment; maltreatment

    I have to say this but WTF are you thinking to asked a female, Kristen, to apologize using the word “rape” when in essence anyone with half of a brain knows she wasn’t saying she was sexually assaulted but being “raped” by the paparazzi…Her privacy is being “raped”.

    Understand definitions. A “place” can be “raped”. For example, when Michael Crichton wrote in “Jurassic Park”: “Discovery is always the rape of the natural world. Always.” http://tinyurl.com/29g7mr5

    Did you protest him? Did you protest his use of the word “rape”? How can a world be “raped”? How can a world be “sexually assaulted?” If you did protest him, you’d be wrong.

    Dictionary.com defines “rape”: to plunder (a place); despoil.

    This is what Crichton was discussing. However, Kristen was stating her feelings, I believe under this portion of the definition:

    “to seize, take, or carry off by force.”

    The paparazzi takes her pictures by force; by placing her under seizure by surrounding her and then verbally abusing her in the process.

    KRISTEN HAS NO REASON TO APOLOGIZE!! She’s RIGHT!! She’s being “raped” not in the sexual nature but by the actions of the paparazzi.

    Kristen is cerebral. She was expressing angst with the paparazzi in an intellectual manner but not to insult or hurt or trying to place herself as an actual “rape victim” but as a victim of a “rape of her privacy”. Of her self-being.

    Kristen is hurting inside. She’s calling out for help and all you did to her today was have her being “raped” over and over again by the press.

    You should be defending her. Protecting her. Sticking up for her and telling the paparazzi to stop what they’re doing. Stop surrounding her and verbally assaulting her. And yes, they are physically assaulting her at times as well by pushing and shoving into her body guards trying to get a stupid picture.

    What you did today to another female who is hurting is unforgivable. This young woman is trying to do the right thing by not going places where the paparazzi are known to be. But when she has to do her job as an actress and go out in public for meetings, appearances, filming etc…that’s the only time they can find her.

    Kristen is not trying to be FAMOUS. She’s trying to be an actress. And yes, the paparazzi are raping her. Everyday…

    YOU OWE HER AN APOLOGY! Her, as well as me and every other female you are supposed to be defending and protecting from abuse…and not just sexual abuse either.

    The hypocrisy is palpable. Your acronym means Rape, ABUSE, and Incest. My best friend was not only physically ABUSED by her ex-husband but verbally ABUSED by him as well. Apparently, it’s ok for stranger to verbally abuse Kristen.

    What you did to Kristen today was worse than what any paparazzi has done to her. You failed to protect her. You failed to defend her. You failed to recognized a female who is hurting, who is reaching out for help…SO the words may not be the best way of expressing herself although I think I pretty much debunked that theory, however, you FAILED to defend her. You FAILED to protect her. YOU FAILED.

  • alynn

    It sucks. She apologized. She didn’t have to. I believe her. She apologized anyway.

    I don’t think it’s about the comment, but the idea that “people” use any excuse to unleash their base and sometimes made up issues upon her – like venting jealousy, insecurity, intolerance or unreasonable inhuman expectations. I mean, okay – have a subjective opinion about her, but why be so vitriolic about it – why not just turn away if you don’t care for something? Also, upon scrutiny how does her detraction so easily, transparently become not about Kristen but the detractor themselves? Like, almost every time. And, usually about a certain proximity to someone else… Starts with P. If you mention that or the FHM hotlist or that your own BF thinks she’s steezy too, they almost implode like the Witch of the East does to a bucket of water. They find something else to cry about as they melt and the monkeys circle above in disarray.

    It’s called bullying. I have begun to truly fear for her and his safety. Swarms of men yelling obscenity and young women jumping out of bushes apprehended by police? That’s not entertainment. That’s not fan-dom. It’s real life psychosis, danger and painful to comprehend much less live it.

    Somehow, weirdly, I felt angry at Pattinson when I saw what happened with Kristen in Sydney. I know, I know… I’m sorry. It was because I believe Kristen takes so much heat for the rumors, iPods in glove-boxes, and I didn’t want him to paint a target on her back additionally, or not be there or stand up for her – like at all, even as a pal. Then, I realized there’s nothing I can do and this is not The Quiet Man starring John Wayne and Maureen O’Hara. Not even close.

    So I’ll go rent that one. This one is too hard to watch. I’m sorry, but my empathy meter is maxed out. Maybe it’s the Twi material that brings out a certain pathology of fan base? I dunno – get Oprah and Sanjay Gupta on it.

  • Angelmaid

    I can’t take no more. First of all, this young lady CANNOT act. She has a flat affect, which some may want to contribute to the character she portrayed in the Twilight series. However, it actually puts most hard working people to sleep. She is less than gracious about her success when interviewed. On Regis and Kelly, she uttered “uh” a lot and looked at her lap. Subsequently, she is an actress, because without other people writing words to put in her mouth she lacks intelligence. The writers are what has made these people famous, not their abilities or lack thereof.

  • alynn

    Just, ugh. Why do we get all their personal pain and not get to celebrate the joy so much? They trust me with the personal struggle downside all the time – and I care, I wish I didn’t, but I do. I don’t mind hearing about it, but if I have to then why can’t I be trusted with the happiness side too?

    It’s heavy and it doesn’t make sense. I already supported their projects, so I don’t get what’s being asked of me.

  • KateWinterman

    Anyone who contributes more than a paragraph to this thread needs to get a life. Please, if you note nothing else, those who have put much thought into her defense/persecution are really quite desperate and need to find something else to fulfill the deficit that is their personal life.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Lisa-Bumbalo-Carlock/1454349046 Lisa Bumbalo Carlock

    Wow GC nothing like tearing someone down. I hear you shouting a lot of insults but not ONCE did you say that you talked to Rob’s team and they confirmed or not confirmed the info. It is getting boring reading your site lately you are so far up Summits a** that no one knows where they begin and you end. Try next time on the article you debunk for R’sten to back it up with facts and not your own opinion. It was not that long ago you DID this to ONTD and you were caught in the wrong. It is actually a joke now as soon as a R’sten article comes out the Clock ticks I think last time you debunked it is 2 hours 45minutes lets see if you beat that record with the next story that is sure to come out. Why did you not debunk TED C’s story about the Ritz which was based on one FB siting. Oh right Ted C is right their with you on Summits payroll. I hope you know most sane fans are not fooled by this shit anymore. So go ahead keep debunking you are losing credibility each and everytime. Happy debunking I use to like this site but times are a changing and others really so have the RIGHT info.

  • dancer1

    Paps confronting KStew w/her dad: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yHBpNDTf2jU

  • dancer1

    TMZ using the pic of Kristen being chased in her hotel all the way into the elevator:

    http://www.tmz.com/2009/10/04/robert-pattinson-kristen-stewart-photo/

    http://www.gossipcop.magnify.net/video/Robert-Pattinson-Kristen-Stew-7 – One guy says “Edward Cullen I love your dick (something to that effect)…this is the vid where Kristen gets called a bitch as well. I don’t know if the audio picks it up w/this version. Also they are chased into their hotel onto the elevator.

  • delle1

    @dancer1,

    Thanks for your comments on Kristen…..I’ve been on all sorts of sites saying the same thing and I too believe that the word “Rape”can be used as a description for violation of someones privacy.
    Kristen has had to put up with alot these past months and is hounded everywhere she goes.
    I’m so sick of these women or girls criticising every little thing she says or does.
    I really hope that this incident does not hinder her in any way from doing the thing she loves best and that’s acting………..and 1 more thing,there’s no way that Rob would be trying to distance himself from Kristen…….why would he,she’s his ladylove so all of these rumours about him and Kristen breaking up are just that,rumours.

  • BeReal

    I thank GC for doing what they do. It is well needed this day and time.

    I personally don’t know this Kristin and Rob, but I have read some of what some of you have written… not all of it because some of it is too much to read. It really hurts my eyes.

    Yes, the papz are very disrespectful to celebs. There should be a law for what they say and do to celebs. Kristen is not the only celeb that they treat this way. To survive it all, I believe there is a lot she has to learn about how to deal with those vicious people.

    The celebs that get the most attention on this site is Kristen and Rob. The rest little or nothing. I think that they get the bounty hunting from the papz because there is a demand.

    I hope that I might say something without getting bit because I have been there. Some of you need to back off some. Believe me, it is not healthy. Those people will survive, the others did. Please don’t kill me!

  • lala

    I understand the metaphor of rape but the difference is KS has paid bodyguards that protect her the paps are abusive to top celebs including KS and there should be laws about the distance and tactics that they use but she chose to associate herself with the Twlight series and is compensated with MILLIONS of dollars for it just as with any job there are good and bad sides the price of fame for her is paparazzi this has been the price for many stars from Marilyn Monroe the Beatles to Britney Spears and Brad Pitt . An actual victim of rape often times has no one to defend her and goes through humiliation there is no comparision and it was insenstive for her to use those terms considering that some of her fans are young women who may have had the ACTUAL experience of being raped. She apologized as she should have done can we all move on?

  • john

    dancer1 your correct pls sent that letter you gave to rain to others who did that to kristen and to the entertainment on tv like daily 10 or e!news

  • john

    and also to perez hilton that ugly fagot for him to realize what he was doing to kristen is wrong

  • Raven

    dancer1…THANK YOU for putting into words what the majority of us are feeling! Kristen should never have been forced to apologize! I’m also sending an email to RAINN and expressing my anger that they chose to attack her instead of defending her!

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Boyc-Ottintouch/100000959565312 Boyc Ottintouch

    .
    ShowbizSpy is such a bullsh*t. site, that the entire Twilight fanbase will be boycotting them and there advertisers forthwith just based on their lame attacks on Kstew – we will not forget.
    .
    Yeah Robert “I’m scared of vaginas” Pattinson, doesn’t like Kristen’s “silly” comments to the media. Riiiiiiight.
    .
    Why do these gossip sites (along w/ paper rags) attack these young women – there must be some jealous envious old hags behind the scenes at these outlets. It reminds me of what they do to Angelina Jolie on a regular near constant basis.
    .
    Face it ladies, if you happen to be beautiful, attractive, a movie star IT girl, and also happen to land a guy that a lot of women would strangle their own grandmothers to have, then your a s s is chum in the blogs and rags. These cows will constantly attack, belittle you and imply your losing your man…it’s their favorite nightly dream after they eat their 5 gallon container of Haagen Daz, and braid the hair on their legs.
    .
    Hey bishes, get. a. life. You don’t have a shot.
    .
    Love you Kristen!!

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Christine-Cox/610673251 Christine Cox

    The whole situation with the paparazzi is complicated. They wouldn’t take pictures if we didn’t look at pictures and the only way we won’t look is if we don’t care in which case the actors are screwed. So I’m not completely against photogs. It’s not so much the pictures I object to. I think as actors, knowing the business they’re in they can’t wail too hard at being photographed at an airport or while they’re working.

    It’s paps actions and the verbal assaults that stars have to put up with that infuriates me. If I were walking down the street and guys started surrounding me, sexually taunting me with who I f***ed this morning I’d be calling the police. (assuming I didn’t have a gun handy) And it’s by no means just Ms. Stewart I’m sorry for. Anybody remember Britney Spears and the horrible pics of her surrounded by paps at a gas station and who then proceeded to follow her car out into the street? I’m not even a Britney fan and I still, to this day, find it completely heinous that they are allowed to get away with that.

    Celebrities sign up for a lot of stuff to be able to make movies and get paid millions of dollars and live in lala land. They are not, however, in the military and do NOT sign away their basic human rights. Or they shouldn’t have too. Ms. Stewart is clearly not seeking the constant attention of so many celebrities and I don’t think she’s required by law to put up with abuse any one of us would call law enforcement over. The fact that she does is probably because people would accuse her of whining or looking for PR. So she’s stuck between a rock and a hard place. Her only outlet is to tell people how much it hurts and affects her to put up with the constant harassment. Of course, now she doesn’t even have that because the media and her own personal head hunters have made sure that she can’t speak her mind anymore for fears of the very people who should be defending her..turning against her. It’s a sad commentary on the inner rot of America actually. Hopefully she’s strong enough to withstand the assaults until the Twilight hoopla dies down and maybe she won’t be as obsessed over. And by obsessed I don’t mean fans.

  • dancer1

    John or anyone on this board agrees with what I posted, feel free to copy and paste it to any site you think should know about the horrendous treatment RAINN displayed against another female who was just trying to state her emotions about how she was treated. I believe what RAINN did to Kristen was an absolute TRAVESTY!!

    An organization which is supposed to protect women attacks a woman just because she didn’t articulate her abuse in the way they think she should have. Not to mention Kristen supports this organization and they turned their back on her.

    As I explained in my piece that the word “rape” was used as a metaphor in Jurassic Park and I never heard of any outrage with its use. Kristen was expressing her feelings using the word as a metaphor and I got it.

    So please feel free to take my post and cut and paste it to any of these sites because they need to know what they did to Kristen this past few days was outrageous. WHO’S PROTECTING KRISTEN? WHO’S DEFENDING HER RIGHT TO PRIVACY? IS THERE ANYONE? Please attach the YouTube videos etc…as well. When a female, any female gets attacked in the manner that she is just for the gossip hacks to make money is just ridiculous.

    #SUPPORTKRISTEN

    Thanks.

  • Kambria

    I’m afraid I am out of the loop. How did RAINN attack Kristen Stewart other than saying her choice of words were regrettable? They were regrettable. Whether she meant to offend anyone or not is beside the point. She did offend people, and rather than rolling her eyes and saying “Get over it. That’s not what I meant”, she apologized for the misunderstanding. So clearly I’m missing something, because I don’t understand the outrage.

  • dancer1

    Kambria, RAINN should not have attacked Kristen for trying to express her angst about being attacked by the paparazzi. It is their job to understand when females are under distress which Kristen was. Instead of them doing their job in understanding her distress, they followed the gossip hounds and fell into the trap of criticizing her for using the word “rape” as if it could not be used in the context that she used it.

    If you read my post, you will see that the word “rape” was used in Jurassic Park. The word was not being used as in saying that the paparazzi was raping her physically or trying to compare herself to a rape victim. And if people are too stupid to understand that then their just stupid.

    She used the word to describe what they were doing in the context of abuse…which is what RAINN is supposed to stand against. They failed to protect her or defend her as a woman being abused by these strangers who think they have the right to invade her privacy and personal space be it at a gas station or walking thru an airport. RAINN should be defending her and not asking for apologies for her trying to describe her distress regarding the paparazzi abuse.

    Now if you cannot understand this, there’s nothing I can do for you. But ignorance is bliss. RAINN is supposed to protect distressed women and not attack them.

  • Kambria

    I don’t feel that RAINN attacked her, but that is my own opinion and you are entitled to disagree with it. I do however think people would take you more seriously if you didn’t call those who disagreed with you “stupid”. I did read your original post. I did not comment on the Jurassic Park quote because I did not believe the argument “Person A did it, so why can’t Person B” was worth a response. Here’s my final say on the subject: Kristen used the word “rape”. Only Kristen Stewart knows exactly what she meant; the rest of us can only assume. Some were honestly offended, and who are we to say what should or should not offend others? I don’t believe Kristen meant to offend anyone, but I think it was a smart move for her to issue a statement. As for RAINN not protecting her from the perverted assholes behind cameras, I’m sure they would if they weren’t spending there time trying to help those 1 in 6 women (and 1 in 33 men) who have been sexually abused and need help recovering. If you feel so strongly about how the paparazzi treat Kristen, perhaps you should consider protesting them instead. I feel that our time would be better spent trying to help the causes we feel strongly about instead of writing them angry letters, and if you feel that makes me ignorant then so be it.

  • taylor

    The women on Showbizspy are trying to ruin Kristen due to her relationship w/ Rob. he should stand up and say that he resents their treatment of her -but so much for that.They state “He needs a mature woman.’ which is disgusting. They criticize her unmercifully.The way she is talked about/treated, I understand why she used the word “rape”-she feels incredibly threatened and I myself don’t think it is safe for her.I am no Robsten -I just have read the terrible things that have been said about her. No one else has been treated this way.No one SHOULD be treated this way.

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