Jason Collins: I’m Gay NBA Player

Truth rating: 10
(Sports Illustrated)

By Daniel Gates

Jason Collins Gay

(Sports Illustrated)

Jason Collins has become the first openly gay NBA player, and the first man in major American team sports to come out of the closet during his active career. The 12-year veteran writes in Sports Illustrated, “I’m a 34-year-old NBA center. I’m black. And I’m gay.”

Collins continues, “I didn’t set out to be the first openly gay athlete playing in a major American team sport. But since I am, I’m happy to start the conversation.” “I wish I wasn’t the kid in the classroom raising his hand and saying, ‘I’m different.’ If I had my way, someone else would have already done this. Nobody has, which is why I’m raising my hand,” explains the athlete.

Collins says, “When I was younger I dated women. I even got engaged. I thought I had to live a certain way. I thought I needed to marry a woman and raise kids with her. I kept telling myself the sky was red, but I always knew it was blue.” “The recent Boston Marathon bombing reinforced the notion that I shouldn’t wait for the circumstances of my coming out to be perfect. Things can change in an instant, so why not live truthfully?” asks Collins.

He writes:

No one wants to live in fear. I’ve always been scared of saying the wrong thing. I don’t sleep well. I never have. But each time I tell another person, I feel stronger and sleep a little more soundly. It takes an enormous amount of energy to guard such a big secret. I’ve endured years of misery and gone to enormous lengths to live a lie. I was certain that my world would fall apart if anyone knew. And yet when I acknowledged my sexuality I felt whole for the first time. I still had the same sense of humor, I still had the same mannerisms and my friends still had my back.

Collins only recently came out to his family, including twin brother Jarron. He says of the process, “The relief I felt was a sweet release. Imagine you’re in the oven, baking. Some of us know and accept our sexuality right away and some need more time to cook. I should know — I baked for 33 years.” Collins has played for six different pro teams and is currently a free agent, hoping to sign on for a 13th NBA season.

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